For those of you new to Raising Arrows, let me quickly explain what an At-A-Glance schedule is…
An At-A-Glance Schedule is a rough sketch of your day. It is not a schedule for the entire family. It is Mom’s Master List. It isn’t super structured or binding. It is a bare-bones approach that keeps you on track without making you feel guilty.
I was looking back at my old At-A-Glance schedule and realized how very outdated it was. We haven’t had piano lessons on Wednesdays in well over a year! Ideally, an At-A-Glance schedule would be re-assessed as circumstances change, or at the very least, every year. It may not need to be changed every year because remember, it isn’t a tight schedule, so you won’t have things like “Baby’s Nap” on there or other things that change often.
This past weekend, I quickly worked through my old schedule to create one I believe will be a good fit for this year. By the way, when I say “year”, I mean “school year.” About this time of year, I am going through all of my homeschool materials and resources to see what I need for the upcoming school year, and figure out what that school year should look like. (I like to be able to share with my readers what the intricacies of our homeschool looks like, so expect upcoming posts that highlight the changes for the 2015-16 year!)
It really is very easy to revamp an old At-A-Glance Schedule once you have the template of your day, so if you can find the time to put together your first one, any that follow will be very simple to make!
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Here is a quick guide to creating your first AAG:
1. Write down the natural rhythm of your day. If you get up at 8 am, don’t write down a wake up time of 7 am. If you start school at 10 am, don’t write down 9 am. This is the REAL routine you follow. There will be time later to decide if you need to change your routine.
2. Make a list of the things you would like to do in a day that are not on your “natural rhythm schedule”. Don’t get crazy, but do get it all out. This is a good exercise in realizing what things you THINK you should be doing, and the actuality of what can be FIT in to your schedule. This list is there to help you work through what’s in your brain and start releasing the guilt you have for not doing EVERYTHING.
3. Prioritize, Plug In, and Cull. Sometimes all it takes is being purposeful and plugging it in. Sometimes you have to have the sense to just let it go. By writing out the things you WISH you had time for and comparing them to the natural rhythm schedule you wrote down in #1, you can see if you really do have the time for those things. For instance, I would love to get back to sewing, but this isn’t the season for that because there are other things that NEED to be in the schedule. I can let go of the guilt of not sewing because I know the things I have plugged in are PRIORITIES.
When you have a list of things that truly NEED to be on the schedule, then you can think about where they go. Again, your AAG is NOT a full-blown schedule, so you are not looking for a place to plug in every single thing, but rather you are making sure there is enough MARGIN in your day to accommodate the things that are truly important.
Margin by Richard Swenson is a good book to help you understand the WHY and HOW of margin in your day.
4. Write it out, type it out, post it. I always write a rough sketch, go over it in my head, go over it with my older children and my husband, and make sure it is doable and everyone who has a choice is on board with it. Then, I type it out, laminate it (with this laminator) and post it.
I always make more than one copy. One copy is near my “office”, one is on the refrigerator, and one is with my homeschool materials. (In the new house, my “office” is separate of my homeschool materials. You’ll notice in this post, my office and homeschool area are the same.) The reason for this is so that you truly can see the schedule AT A GLANCE! It’s everywhere you are when you might need a little EXTRA focus.
5. Tweak as needed. I know, I know – I ALWAYS say this, but it’s true. I was an English major – every paper was a rough draft! Every SCHEDULE is a rough draft! This gives you permission to change something. HOWEVER, just because your AAG didn’t work the first or second, or even third time you tried it, does NOT mean it isn’t the “right” schedule for you. It simply means it is NEW. If after a week or two of really trying, it still doesn’t work, THEN tweak.
You will find that your day RARELY goes the way you plan, but having an At-A-Glance Schedule will help keep you on a track that moves forward and makes sense. It is never meant to tie you down or stress you out!
Would you like to take a peek at my new AAG? You will notice a couple of things:
1. We are late risers.
2. I sometimes (not always) rely on audio and video to keep the younger crowd occupied during a section of school that requires me to stay focused on the older crowd (I just put it on the schedule as an option).
I’m also including some links at the bottom of this post that I’ve written about specific items mentioned in the At A Glance Schedule. These will help you understand more about how our day runs and what I mean by certain sections on the schedule.
Helpful Links:
Morning Chores
Quiet Time with Small Children
Another Take on Quiet Time
Christian Mom’s Guide to Blogging
Table Chores
Schooling the Little First
Easy Homeschool Lunches
Laundry Ideas
Special School
Art & Artist Time
Special Night
korie says
Oh my goodness! Thank you so much for posting this. I feel so relieved to know your REAL schedule. Most blogging women whose schedules I’ve seen wake up at some crazy early hour (5am? Is that a joke?! Lol… not against women who do of course) and then still may go to bed pretty late. I had been wondering if I needed to somehow muster up the strength to wake up earlier, but the times I have I end up being less productive because I’m so tired! So thanks for being authentic; it really encouraged me today. I think of the verse in psalm 127: it is in vain that you rise up early and go to bed late, eating the bread of anxious toil.
Amy in Mississippi says
Ditto about seeing that not every “good” homeschooling mother is up with the chickens. I am naturally at my best when I go to bed between 10:30 and 11:00 and get up between 7:00 and 7:30. I feel so lazy when I hear others talking about getting up at 6:00 am or earlier.
Josi says
I need to be better about doing one of these. I keep a calendar and a weekly homeschool planner but I have a daughter who will still ask, “what are we doing today?” She absolutely needs the visual reminder and would do good with an AAG. The schedule does change around our house for the summer. I need to make it a goal to have an AAG so that our days have order and intentionality to them, yet with the flexibility that I need for the summer. This actually goes right along with what the Lord has been putting on my heart for our summer 🙂
Rébecca says
I love reading about other homeschooling families schedules.
One thing I wonder about is the kids doing out-of-the-house activities (sports, music, etc) My kids do quite a few, but with a large fmaily, I wonder how we will be able to keep up ! I much prefer staying home as much as possible, but then they complain that they are bored; How do you deal with that ? Do your kids have extra-curricular activities and if so, to what extenT ? How old are they when they start ?
Amy says
We don’t have a lot of extra-curricular activities. However, we do fellowship a lot with other families and go to events as a family. I don’t like to separate the family out too much, so we don’t do a lot of things together. Only my older kids (ages 14 and 17) have things they do on their own, but even then, we tend to tag along with a lot of it. 😉
Tara Burton says
Thank you for sharing! It is great to know that I am not the only one who makes lists like yours … only difference? I usually make a new one every day and now I am wondering WHY? I think I’ll be “borrowing” your idea and making my own – soon!
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Jenni says
I am relieved to see how little school you do (not a bad thing) and that you do use videos for the younger ones when you’re working with the older kids. I only have 4 total, ranging from 11 months to almost 8 years old. We start earlier because we are all up earlier, but I find that homeschooling with good curriculum has not taken that long with my oldest – he can get through all of his math and language arts in an hour, and history and science don’t take that long either because he’s still young enough he can only sit still for small doses of that. When I hear of six hour schedules at public schools, I get stressed sometimes because I don’t know what I would do with them for six hours if all we did was academics.
Jessica says
Just finished reading your book Home Management Homeschool Mom! It was great, I am looking forward to implementing a few of the things you suggest. As a somewhat seasoned homeschool mom I still find myself kind of floundering around, in need of a bit more structure. I’m hoping by adding these suggestions I will feel less floundering and more like I’m swimming!! Thank you for all you do for us Large family Mommas!!!!
Amy says
So good to hear! Thank you! And feel free to ask any questions you think of along the way. Have a blessed Thanksgiving!
Sherise says
This is extremely cool . It’s like I’m doing these things without knowing and you’re confirming them I love the family night part and special school I love that everyday is something different I really admire that going to implement these ….. the lord is using you girl